Favorite Passages: Love Heroin

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I find this passage from Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert quite hilarious:

“Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based loved story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never even dared to admit that you wanted — an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with the hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is withheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but who now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore — despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have that thing one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you’re someone he’s never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is, you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You’re a pathetic mess, unrecognizable even to your own eyes.

So that’s it. You have now reached infatuation’s final destination — the complete and merciless devaluation of self.”

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2 Comments

  1. June 28, 2010 at 10:00 am

    It is hilarious because it is SO TRUE! Well, for some of us anyways!

    • meggitymegs said,

      June 28, 2010 at 10:18 am

      It is totally true. I have felt like a drug addict in relationships more than I care to admit! Trying to change that. Thanks for commenting! I enjoyed your post about “G.” 🙂


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